Like Attracts Like, and why it is especially true of energy and energy workers (or why being a jerk will attract jerks to you!)
Have all heard of the expression “Like attracts Like”? This is so true of energy and is important to energy workers for a number of reasons. The following examples give you a clearer understanding of how to get the best from any psychic or energy worker. Hopefully, they will be doing their best to work with the prevailing energy for your benefit.
Can you judge by appearance?
What would you think if you turned up to talk to a financial advisor about your mortgage, and they were wearing ripped jeans and a sweaty T-shirt? Probably not the best impression. However, it would also say that perhaps their attitude to handling your affairs is a little less than professional. Your enthusiasm and energy would probably fall through the floor.
Having a background in banking, I have always known the impact of professional appearance. Not just to myself, but those I work with. Since the beginning of my career as a psychic medium, I still see parallels in people’s perceptions of appearance. We all still make judgments of people based upon how they present themselves in a professional context. Even though I now live and work in USA, customs and attitudes can be very relaxed, or “different”,
Since my early days of mediumship, working in Spiritualist churches in the UK, I always wore a suit and tie. I figured that Spirit people are far more likely to work with me if I showed respect to them. And the process. It seemed to work.
So next time you see a professional of any kind, let their appearance guide you to their attitude to their work. As it will affect you, and your energy.
Ever been late for something? Of course, we all have. However, if you are running 15 minutes late for a doctor’s appointment, you would probably call them. Just to let them know so that they don’t just move on to the next appointment. If you are going to see a psychic for a private reading, your energy is being read! Yes, YOUR energy! So arriving late and flustered should really be avoided. Having an dismissive attitude will have a major effect on your energy, and a good psychic will pick that up. Attitudes of “I don’t really care, it’s only a psychic, they can wait for me”, will diminish your experience.
Bear in mind that it will affect your reading in a negative way. Doing the “nice”, considerate thing of pulling over to call the psychic will relax you. The added benefit is that it will also change your energy in a positive way. Want to pay someone to do half a job for you? No, I thought not.
Welcome to the house of love!
My work sometimes requires me to visit someone’s house to do a “clearance”. Most of the time it is only a loved one from the Spirit World making their presence known. Whilst it is human nature to fear what we don’t understand. It is probably natural that when we don’t fully understand what is going on, we could feel unsettled. If we have a home of love, peace, and tranquillity, we can reasonably expect to attract that kind of energy. If we have a house filled with arguments, hate, and stress, well…. I think we know what kind of energy we will attract then.
Burning white sage around the home and “cleansing” the energy is called smudging. It is something we can all do, just to give our home an energetic spring-clean. It can work wonders for the feel of the home. There are many other forms of changing the energy of a building, but remember the title of this blog? Like attracts Like!
Free reading anyone?
We all love something for nothing. When I first started using my energy sensitivities, I felt awkward about asking for money for my work. I wanted to know that it was truly having a positive effect for my clients, before asking for something in return. However, in any walk of life, if you give, give, give, there is usually only one outcome. There needs to be balance in all things. We all try to work for the greater good, but when things are out of balance, the universe responds with the energy of the situation. I subsequently found that there was a distinct difference in the type of clients I attracted by offering my work free of charge, to charging an appropriate amount.
Think about it this way; if you turn up for a $5 reading, your energy will almost certainly match that energy, and will probably get a reading that is worth $5 to you. However, arriving for a $1000 reading, will mean that you are probably more excited, more energized, because you are expecting wondrous things to happen. These are obviously the extremes, and there will always be a middle ground you will probably feel drawn to. Of course, there is a line to be drawn where affordability is concerned, and I would never encourage anyone to spend beyond their means. But it is far better to save what you need for the psychic you want than to save a little and get someone you don’t want.
Remember, if you are feeling drawn to a particular psychic, there is always a good reason for it. Likewise, if you feel repelled by one, there is a good reason for that too. “Free” is all well and good, but it will also be reflected in the quality of the reading!
Glenn the ballet dancer?
No, I have never done any ballet in my life. I come from a rufty tufty background of martial arts, beer drinking, rugby playing and attending the school of hard knocks. Yes I have some rough edges. I’m sure we all do to some degree.
As a medium, the Spirit World will blend their energy with mine to prove themselves, and so if I am a nice guy, hopefully, they will talk to me.
I am not a parent, and my wife, Dagmar, who also does this work, has two grown daughters. So I am always surprised when a baby, or a daughter that has passed before their parents, comes through to me. Never having had that feeling of being a parent makes it difficult for me to fully understand the connection that has been lost. But it happens. I have always just assumed that the gentler, more feminine connections will utilize Dagmar’s experience. She says the same in reverse. She rarely gets the ex-rugby players that want to come through talking about injuries, singing and waving a beer glass around. But again, it happens.
Remember that it is our energy that they are drawn to, not our life experience. So whilst I am yet to get a message from a Rudolph Nureyev, it is not because I have never done any ballet myself.